Put Your Arms Up

We’ve all talked about how we love variety, something just a little different than the same old, same old. Here’s something that you can do to create variety that is so simple and yet can create a very different vibe. On a night when my husband is taking the lead,  I love to lay back and stretch my arms up above my head, and gently clasp my hands together.

It opens up all those delicious sensitive spots that don’t typically receive much touch. The curves where one body part meets another body part can be magical: insides of elbows, arms to torso, breast to chest. They are wonderful erogenous zones that deserve much more attention than they normally receive.

It also creates this wonderful tension through the stretching of our bodies. With our arms lifted up, our breath is felt in the gentle expansion of our rib cage as we breath in and out. You are suddenly aware of a whole new dimension of being alive.

It is also a position of surrender. Surrender to our husbands touch, surrender to our bodies desires, surrender to whatever God would have us experience. It is putting into practice surrendering.

So this week, put your arms up, and experience something new.hands up

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  1. I’m sure. like me, there are men reading this post. Guys, you need to help your wife be comfortable with this position. Many women are overly conscious about their bodies and particularly their breasts. They worry about their size, not only as compared to other women but to one another. They worry about their shape, their nipple size, shape and color and how you see their breasts as a whole.

    We need to keep this in mind when our wives are brave enough to open their bodies to this extent of vulnerability. They may be more than a little nervous and not at all confidant when attempting this position. Remember to say something positive about her body, her breasts in particular, Don’t dwell on speaking or gazing at them to the point that she begins to feel overly conscious again. just be positive and move on. In time, as her comfort level increases, you will be able to lavish more attention upon them and help her to become more confidant, and nothing is more sexy than a sexually confidant woman.

  2. Absolutely my wife’s favorite position when we are together.

    Not only does it allow for great overall exploration of my wife’s body, it allows me to lightly tickle her sides and underarms (which drives her and I crazy).

    You should really try this position if you haven’t.

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