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Awaken Love

Tired of the world’s lies about sex? God created sex as an amazing gift for both husbands and wives, but real intimacy doesn’t come easily.

Biblically based live or video classes for wives, husbands or engaged couples will provide real answers and help you discover God’s design for sex.

Ruth writes from her own experiences and from the stories she encounters while teaching, to inspire you towards your own growth of marital intimacy.

In her engaging style, Ruth will challenge you to think beyond what you’ve been told, infuse you with hope, and spark an appetite to create real intimacy.


After years of buying into the same old messages about sex, Ruth went searching for God’s truth and discovered something radically different. By sharing her own journey to sexual freedom and the stories of the women she’s taught, you will come away with a new mindset about sex and a deep-seated belief that God designed each of us unique, special – and created for delights.

Claim God’s Design for Intimacy and Share the Truth with Others.

At Awaken-Love you will find respectful conversations, authentic stories, real answers and God’s truth. Transform your marriage and become part of the grass roots movement to take sex back from the world.


Anxiety – The Destroyer During Sexual Experiences

One of the biggest destroyers of having great sex is anxiety.  Worrying about sex prevents our body from naturally responding the way that God designed it to. Anxiety draws us into our head instead of letting ourselves enjoy what happens. Worry creates fear about performance that can  cause us to avoid sex. Even a small […]

Model of a Great Marriage

People in my life modeled what great marriages looked like. I don’t think any of them actually talked to me about marriage. They simply lived it. From the time I was a small child, my eyes and my heart noticed couples that still had that spark. Some were relatives, some friends and others just acquaintances […]

6 Ways for Women to Stay Simmering Sexually

Unlike men, most women must intentionally remind themselves that God created them as sexual beings. Besides those bi-monthly hormone spikes that might wake us up, everything else seems to crowd out sexual thoughts. Even the way that God created our bodies, carefully tucked away, fails to provide a gentle reminder that good things can happen […]