Connection Starts With a Kiss

Solomon’s Song of Songs.

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—
    for your love is more delightful than wine.

Connection starts with a kiss… her passion for him started with a kiss. Not a peck on the cheek as you leave for work, or a harried kiss as you enter into the chaos of home.  A mind-numbing connection that makes you forget all the other junk that you are dealing with. A kiss that warms and relaxes you like a smooth glass of wine.

Great kisses don’t have to take a lot of time, but they require your undivided attention. You both must take a moment to disconnect from distractions. Forget work, ignore the screaming kids, stop worrying about the sink full of dishes, just be with each other. Feel each other breathe, hear your hearts beat, and allow yourself to receive. Linger long enough to feel two become one.

Once we get married, we don’t kiss enough. Your mission this week is to kiss your spouse like you mean it. Linger a little longer, tune into them and transport them to another place. It will make a world of difference. Here are a few ideas to get you started.

Put It Into Action

  1. Have a make out session like you used to – that means clothes on, maybe in a car or on the couch. Just enjoy kissing for the sake of kissing.
  2. Make a commitment to greet each other with a 15 second kiss every day this week.
  3. Fall asleep lip to lip.


Comments 4

  1. Great idea to do this “mini series”.
    I have never read the Song of Solomon and am looking forward to see all the wonderful sexual things it contains. 😉 I always love learning about God’s perspective on sex. Thank you!

  2. Beautiful and inspiring as always. Falling asleep lip to lip? Is that possible? Haha. We struggle to fall asleep spooning or holding hands. It’s probably an age thing?

  3. I am happy that you are back. Thank you for reminding me to kiss him everyday. It is such an easy yet affectionate way to connect with our husbands.

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