In Juli Slattery’s book Rethinking Sexuality, she talks about how seriously we pursue answers and healing when we face physical ailments. We see doctors for diagnosis, follow up treatments, and surgery. No matter what the cost, we keep looking for answers. When medicine fails, we pursue spiritual healing. We pray, examine our lives, fast and ask elders to lay hands on us. Then she asks, why don’t we pursue sexual healing with the same tenacity?