Reverse Cowgirl

bootsWhen you are feeling playful and in the mood to experiment, then the reverse cowgirl position offers a number of variations to enjoy.  With the husband laying on his back, propped up to the degree needed to be comfortable and to have a good line of sight, his wife straddles his pelvis while facing away from him. This gives the husband an amazing view of his wife’s back and bottom. Though the wife cannot see her husband’s face, she can focus on hearing and feeling him more intently.  Or a mirror at the end of the bed can provide the wife a view of the action if desired.

In this position, with the wife upright, she can control much of the movement and the depth of penetration – allowing for either clitoral, g-spot or deep spot stimulation depending what she is aiming for.  However, the position is not limited to this alone. Try different variations with her upright, her leaning forward, her leaning back balanced on her hands or her leaning back onto his chest.  Each changes the sensations.

Experiment with her legs straight down on the outside of his, his legs on the outside of hers, his legs dangling over the side of the bed and his legs wrapped around her straight legs.  All of these variations change the angle at which the husband’s penis hits and who leads the movement.  Clearly, this position necessitates communication, so don’t be afraid to say howdy to your partner as different variations are savored again and again.

Reserve cowgirl can be great during pregnancy. Husbands who enjoy seeing their wife’s backside will relish this position, too. As he marvels, he can grab onto her hips, manually stimulate her clitoris and/or breasts, and use his words to describe the beauty that he sees.  All around, reverse cowgirl is a sure fire way to have fun while boosting a wife’s confidence.  So whether you live way out yonder or are a city slicker, it’s time to giddy up!

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  1. Anonymous for privacy on this post

    Your posts have given me so many practical pointers, some of which have added immeasurably to our marital joy, that I thought I’d share this with you. You have mentioned before that some positions are good for women who have anxiety about their appearance. Last night my husband and I went to our church’s coffeehouse, and the band provided glow sticks. I put three of them on my wrist and forgot about them. We got home really late and headed straight up to bed; we’re not late-night people so we planned to just sleep. However, after the lights were out and I had stripped for bed, I showed him how the glow sticks lit up my body; I moved my hands around, giving him a silhouette of my torso, or softly lighting up his favorites. Well, despite the fact that it was two hours past our usual bedtime, we went for it right away and it was a lot of fun! I just want to say, the glow stick light is very flattering, and I felt confident. Very worth it!

    • This is a great suggestion (and a great memory made.) Soft lighting can do wonders! Glow in the dark stickers, candles around the room, a closet or bathroom light on with a cracked door, ever so slightly parted blinds, a lamp on the floor below the height of the bed…keep experimenting!

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